Domination, Fetish and Spanking Bookings Explained

Domination, fetish and spanking are among the most commonly listed things on our books and among the least well explained anywhere. They are also the bookings where the gap between what someone wants and what they manage to ask for is widest. This is how to close it.

The terms, separated

Domination. She leads. What that means in practice ranges from firm direction to a properly structured scene, and it varies more between escorts than almost anything else on a profile. See who offers domination.

Submission. The other role, and listed separately because offering one says nothing about the other. See who offers it.

Fetish. A specific interest forming part of the evening. The range here is enormous, which is exactly why the profile listing is a starting point rather than an answer. See fetish bookings.

Spanking. Listed as giving and receiving, and the two rarely overlap. Check which her profile actually says. Giving, receiving.

Foot worship. Feet as the focus rather than an afterthought, and more widely offered than people expect. See who offers it.

Say what you want before the booking, not during it

This is the whole guide in one line. A profile listing tells you she is open to a category. It does not tell you what she does within it, and no two escorts listing “fetish” mean the same thing.

Ring and describe what you have in mind. We would far rather have that conversation while a booking is being made than have you spend an hour hoping. It also changes who we suggest, because some of the roster is markedly better at this than others and we know which.

If saying it out loud is the hard part, say it badly. Nobody on this end is going to be surprised.

Limits work in both directions

Agreed beforehand, and they hold for the whole booking. Hers and yours.

She can stop at any point without giving a reason, and so can you. That is not a formality anybody recites: it is the thing that makes the rest of it possible, and an escort who treats a pre-agreed limit as negotiable once you are in the room is one to end the booking with.

Agree a word that means stop. Simple, unambiguous, not something you might say in the ordinary run of things.

Experience matters here more than elsewhere

An ordinary booking with somebody new to it is fine. A scene with somebody who has not run one before is a different proposition, and the escorts we list for this are experienced rather than merely willing.

If you are new to it yourself, say so when you call. It is the single most useful thing you can tell us, it changes who we suggest, and nobody thinks anything of it.

Practical points

• Kit. Some keep their own, some do not. Ask when you book rather than assuming.
• Length. An hour is short for anything structured. Ninety minutes upward is more realistic.
• Incall usually works better. Her space, set up for it, with everything to hand.
• Surcharges. Where one applies it is on her profile, not added at the door.

Our glossary covers the individual abbreviations you will see alongside these, and escort etiquette the conventions that apply to any booking.