How to Stay Discreet When Booking an Escort

Discretion when booking an escort is mostly practical rather than dramatic. A handful of habits cover almost everything, and none of them require any particular effort once you know what they are.

What we keep, and what we do not

Start with the agency, since that is the part you have least control over. We keep the number you call on, so we can reach you if something changes, and nothing else. There is no account to create, no mailing list, and no record of who you asked about.

If you would rather not leave a number at all, say so when you call and we will work around it. Not every agency operates this way, so it is worth asking whoever you book with what they retain.

The phone

Call rather than message where you can. A call leaves a line on an itemised bill; a message thread sits on a device where somebody might see it.

If you do message, clear the thread afterwards, and remember that most phones preview messages on the lock screen whether or not the phone is unlocked. That preview is how these things are usually discovered, not the message itself.

Save nothing under a name that invites a question. A contact card is more revealing than a number.

Payment

Cash. Every time.

It is the only method that does not appear on a statement, and it is what nearly every escort prefers anyway. Withdraw it in advance rather than on the way, and not from a machine next to where you are going.

Payment is arranged directly with her and never through the agency, so there is no charge from us on any statement either.

Choosing where

Incall is quieter than outcall in almost every respect. You go to her, nobody comes to your address, and the whole thing is bounded by leaving. Our incall locations are ordinary residential blocks in ordinary streets, chosen partly because arriving at one is unremarkable.

If you book a hotel, most central London hotels are entirely relaxed about guests and a few of the larger chains are not. Tell us which and we will usually know. She will call or text on arrival rather than announcing herself at reception.

Booking outcall to your home is the least discreet option available and worth thinking about properly before choosing it. Our guide on incall and outcall goes through the trade in full.

Browsing

Use a private window. It stops the visit appearing in history and in autocomplete, which is where it is usually found.

Bear in mind a private window does not hide anything from a network you do not control. On a work laptop or a work connection, assume it is visible.

On the night

Be on time, so nobody is waiting in a corridor. Give her a room number rather than meeting in a lobby if the lobby is busy, or meet in the lobby if you would rather she did not come straight up. Either is normal and worth saying which you prefer when you book.

What she keeps

Her real name, her number and her address never appear on the site and are never given to a client, and the same holds in reverse. Nothing about your booking is discussed with anybody, including other clients.

Discretion runs both ways or it does not run at all. See also escort etiquette, which covers the conventions around the booking itself.