What DFK Means

DFK stands for deep french kissing. It is the least explicit thing on a profile and, for a lot of people, the one that matters most, because it is the difference between an evening that feels like an evening and one that feels like an appointment.

The short answer

DFK = deep french kissing. Kissing with tongue, properly, rather than a peck at the door.

The related one you will see is FK, plain french kissing, listed by seventy seven of our roster. DFK is listed by forty nine. The gap between the two numbers is the point: they are not the same listing and they are not assumed to travel together.

Why it is listed at all

People are often surprised that kissing needs a line on a profile when far more explicit things are listed a few rows down. It is there for a reason.

Kissing is the most personal thing in a booking for a great many escorts, more so than anything physical, and it is the one most often withheld. A profile that lists DFK is telling you something real about how the evening will feel, which is why it matters more than its position on the list suggests.

Where it fits

DFK is close to the centre of what people mean by GFE, the girlfriend experience. Warm, unhurried, conversational. If GFE is what you are after, DFK is one of the listings to check for, because a GFE listing without it is a different evening from one with it. See what GFE means in practice.

At the other end, PSE is higher energy and more direct, and kissing features less in what people usually mean by it. See what PSE usually means.

The practical bit

Brush your teeth. Shower. Go easy on anything strong beforehand, garlic and cigarettes included.

This is not fussiness and it is not really about hygiene either. It is the single most common reason kissing does not happen in a booking where it was listed, and it is entirely within your control.

Health wise there is little to say. Kissing carries a small risk for a few things that spread by contact rather than fluid, cold sores chief among them. If you have an active one, say so and skip it. Our guide on sexual health covers the wider picture.

Asking for it

Check the profile rather than trying on the night. If DFK is listed she offers it. If only FK is listed, that is the answer, and if neither appears, kissing is not part of the booking.

It carries no surcharge anywhere on our books.

As with everything on a profile, a listing is what she is open to and not a commitment. She can decline on the night without giving a reason. Kissing in particular tends to follow how an evening is going rather than a checkbox, which is worth knowing rather than resenting.

See who offers DFK, or the girlfriend experience more broadly. The glossary covers the rest of the abbreviations, and escort etiquette the conventions around a booking. Or ring +44 20 7846 3480.