What MMF Means

MMF is one of the less common listings on this site and one of the more commonly misunderstood, mostly because people arrive at it expecting it to mean the same thing everywhere. It does not.

The short answer

MMF = male, male, female. Two men and one woman.

Fifteen of our roster list it, which makes it genuinely selective rather than merely less popular. That number is worth holding on to, because it is the practical constraint on the whole thing.

The distinction that matters

MMF describes who is present. It does not describe what the two men do.

In practice almost every MMF booking arranged through an agency is what people call a bi curious free arrangement: both men are involved with her and not with each other. If that is not what you had in mind, that is the thing to say when you book, because assuming it is the assumption that goes wrong.

The mirror image, two women and one man, is a duo booking, and that is a much larger part of what we do. Fifty two of the roster list duos, against fifteen for MMF. See how duo bookings run.

Who books it

Three groups, roughly.

• Two friends. Straightforward, and the most common version by a distance.
• A couple where the man is bringing a second man. Less common through an agency and worth a longer conversation first.
• One man who wants to watch. Which is a different booking again, and often better arranged as something else entirely.

If you are a couple booking rather than two men, our guide on booking as a couple is the relevant one. Forty six of the roster see couples.

The practical constraints

This is where MMF differs most from everything else on the site, and it is worth being blunt about.

It is nearly always an outcall. Two men arriving at a residential flat is not discreet and most escorts will not host it. A hotel room is the normal answer. See London hotel bookings and incall or outcall.

Notice matters more than usual. Fifteen people, one of whom has to be free on the night you want. Same day is unlikely. Two or three days makes it straightforward.

Book two hours. An hour split three ways is not an evening, it is a queue.

The rate is not the standard one. It is set individually rather than by a formula, and it is more than a single booking and less than double. Ask when you book. What a booking costs covers how rates work generally.

The etiquette, which matters here more than anywhere

Three people in a room is a different social situation from two, and the bookings that go badly nearly always go badly for the same reason: one of the two men treats it as a performance for the other.

The rest is ordinary. Both of you shower. Both of you are on time. One person handles the payment rather than a discussion at the door. And both of you take a no as a no, which is a thing that needs saying because a second man in the room occasionally makes people braver than they would be alone.

Our guide on escort etiquette covers the rest, and all of it applies twice over.

Related listings

• MMF. Fifteen list it.
• Couples. Forty six list it.
• Duo, two escorts and one client. Fifty two list it. See our duo and trio page.
• DP. Two list it, and it is the rarest listing on the site for good reason.

Asking

Ring rather than email, and say at the start that it is an MMF so the conversation starts in the right place. Say where, say how long, and say whether it is two friends or a couple.

As with everything here, a listing is what somebody is open to rather than a promise, and any escort can decline on the night without giving a reason.

See who offers MMF, read the glossary, or call +44 20 7846 3480.