The short answer

Foot worship covers attention paid to the feet as the point of the thing rather than in passing. Kissing, licking, massaging, holding, being made to wait for permission to do any of it.

Seventy of our roster list it, which puts it among the most widely offered listings on the site. It is not niche and nobody treats it as strange.

What it usually involves

The range is wider than people expect, and most bookings sit at the gentler end of it.

• Worship proper. Kissing and licking, often with her seated and you not.
• Shoes and hosiery. For a lot of people the heels, the stockings or the tights are the point rather than the feet themselves.
• Massage. Given by you to her, which is more common than the other way round.
• Trampling and standing. Firmly at the domination end and worth naming explicitly if it is what you want.
• Instruction. Being told what to do and when. This is where it starts overlapping with domination.

Where it sits

Foot worship is listed on its own rather than under domination because it frequently has nothing to do with it. Plenty of bookings are affectionate rather than authoritarian, and plenty of people who want it have no interest in submission at all.

That said, the two travel together often enough that our guides on domination and fetish bookings and finding a dominatrix in London are the right next step if the instruction part is the appeal.

If what you want is the softer version, GFE and foot worship sit together comfortably and most people book them that way without ever saying so.

How to ask

Say it when you book. That is the whole technique.

It reads as far more of an ordeal in your head than it does on the phone, where it is a booking detail alongside the address and the hour. Nobody on the other end of that call is surprised and nobody has ever been fazed by it.

What genuinely helps is being specific. Foot worship covers a lot of ground, and the difference between wanting to spend an hour on a massage and wanting to be trodden on is worth establishing before rather than during. Our guide on booking for the first time covers the shape of that conversation.

The practical bits

Say if heels or stockings matter. She will bring them. She cannot read your mind and most people forget to mention the part that matters most to them.

Book longer than an hour. This is the honest advice. Foot worship is unhurried by nature and an hour that also has to include everything else is not really the thing you were after.

Your own hygiene counts too. Obvious in one direction, forgotten in the other. Shave if you are going to be near her skin for an hour.

No surcharge. Where it is listed it is part of the rate on the profile. See what a booking costs.

The bit nobody says out loud

A good share of the people searching this are working out whether it is normal before working out how to ask for it.

It is normal, it is common, and it is one of the most frequently listed things on this entire site. Seventy people offering something is not a fringe interest. The only real mistake is spending three bookings hinting at it rather than one phone call naming it.

She can still say no

A listing is what she is open to rather than a commitment, and specific requests inside it are still requests. Somebody who lists foot worship may be happy with worship and not with trampling, which is exactly why saying which one you mean is worth the thirty seconds.

See who offers foot worship, read the glossary, or call +44 20 7846 3480 and say what you are after.

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Before she arrives

Shower. It is the single thing most often mentioned when we ask how a booking went, in both directions. Clean, freshly dressed, teeth done.

Tidy the room. Nobody expects a hotel suite. They do expect somewhere they can put their coat down.

Have the payment ready. Counted, in an envelope or folded, somewhere visible. This matters more than people realise, and the next section explains why.

Have a drink to offer. Water is enough. It gives the first few minutes something to do.

The money

Leave it somewhere she can see it rather than handing it over. On the side, on the table, by the kettle. She will not count it in front of you and neither of you will mention it again.

This is the convention because it removes the one genuinely awkward moment from the evening. Handing over cash makes the transaction the first thing that happens; leaving it visible means it has already happened.

Never ask to pay afterwards, and never be short and offer to make it up next time.

The first ten minutes

There is usually a drink and some conversation before anything else. That part is not a formality to be got through. It is how two people who have not met stop being strangers, and skipping it makes everything after it worse rather than better.

Ask how her evening has been. Talk about something. It costs a few minutes and changes the whole booking.

What not to ask

Her real name. She has a working name for a reason.

Her number, or to see her outside the arrangement. The agency holds the diary for a reason too, and this is the request that most reliably ends a good working relationship.

Anything not on her profile. What she offers is listed because she chose to list it. Anything absent is absent on purpose, and asking at the booking rather than beforehand is the quickest way to end one.

To remove the condom. Asking is not negotiating, it is the end of the booking.

During

Say if something is not working. Nobody minds being told the music is too loud or the room is too cold. Everybody minds sitting opposite someone quietly having a bad time.

Keep track of the time yourself rather than making her raise it. If you want longer, ask before the hour is up, not as she is getting dressed.

She can decline anything at any point, and end the booking if she is uncomfortable, without giving a reason. That is not a technicality. It is the basis on which any of this works.

Afterwards

Let her leave when she is ready. Do not follow her out, do not ask where she is going, do not walk her to a taxi unless she asks.

If it went well, say so to the agency. It genuinely reaches her and it makes the next booking easier for both of you.

If you need to cancel

Call as early as you can. There is no charge for cancelling with reasonable notice. Booking and cancelling repeatedly on the day is the one thing that will get you taken off the books.

Our guide on booking for the first time covers the call itself, and staying discreet deals with the practical side of privacy.

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None of what follows is legal advice. It is the position as it stands, and where to go for advice proper.

The definition, and what it leaves out

The offence is brothel keeping, under the Sexual Offences Act 1956 and amended since. What makes a premises a brothel is that more than one person is selling sexual services from it. That is the whole test.

Things the law does not require for a place to count:

• Any sign, advertising or shopfront
• Anyone managing or profiting from it
• The people working there to be there at the same time
• Money to change hands on the premises

Two people working from the same flat on different days of the week is enough. This catches a lot of arrangements that nobody involved would describe as a brothel, and it is the reason the word appears in conversations where it seems wildly out of place.

What is actually legal

The thing most people get wrong. Selling sex is not illegal in the United Kingdom, and neither is paying for it. What is illegal is a ring of activity around it.

• Brothel keeping, as above. Also letting premises knowing they will be used as one.
• Soliciting in a public place, in either direction.
• Controlling prostitution for gain, which is what pimping is called in the legislation.
• Paying for sex with someone subject to force, which carries strict liability, meaning it is an offence whether or not you knew.

Northern Ireland is different and is the one part of the UK where paying for sex is itself an offence. Scotland differs again on soliciting. Our guide on whether booking an escort is legal in the UK goes through it properly.

Why incall escorts work alone

Here is where the definition stops being trivia.

An escort hosting at her own place is working alone, lawfully, and nothing about that arrangement is a brothel. Add a second person working from the same address and it becomes one, and she is the one who carries the offence.

That single fact shapes the whole incall side of this business. It is why incall flats hold one person rather than several, why an escort will not have a colleague staying, and why a duo booking is arranged rather than simply walked into. Two escorts booking together is not the problem; two escorts working from one address as a standing arrangement is.

It also explains something clients notice and misread as evasiveness: an escort being careful about who else is in the building, and about a booking that arrives with an extra person. That is not suspicion of you. It is her keeping the address lawful.

What this means for an agency

An agency holds a diary and takes calls. It does not hold premises, and we do not. Every one of the ninety four on our books works from her own address or comes to yours.

That is not a technicality we have found our way around. It is how the model works, and it is the same for any London agency operating properly. If somebody offers you an address where several people are available on arrival, you are being offered something other than what is described, and spotting a fake listing covers the wider pattern.

Massage parlours, saunas and the rest

A recurring question. Premises advertising massage where more than one person is selling sexual services meet the definition, whatever is written on the door. Some operate for years without incident and some are closed within months; the law does not change between the two cases, only enforcement does.

It is worth knowing what you are walking into rather than assuming a shopfront means a licence. There is no licence. No such thing exists in England and Wales.

Where to get advice proper

• National Ugly Mugs, for safety reporting and support
• The English Collective of Prostitutes, on the law as it affects people working
• A solicitor, if the question is about your own position rather than the general one

Any of the three will tell you more than a page like this should try to. For how a booking with us actually works, see incall or outcall and escort etiquette.

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The short answer

Bareback means penetrative sex without a condom. You will also see it written BB, or BBFS for bareback full service.

It is not offered by anyone on this site. There is no listing for it, no escort who provides it, and no rate at which that changes. If you are here to find out whether it can be arranged, that is the answer and the rest of this page explains why.

Why the answer is no

Not squeamishness, and not a policy written to look responsible.

An escort seeing several people a week is managing a risk that compounds in a way a single encounter does not. A condom is the one measure that works reliably against most of what is being managed, and removing it for one booking removes it for everybody she sees afterwards. That is the whole reasoning and it is not negotiable at any agency worth ringing.

It is also her decision rather than ours, and every escort we work with has made the same one.

The term you may be confusing it with

OWO, oral without, is oral sex without a condom. Eighty five of our roster list it and it is entirely ordinary.

That is a different thing from bareback, carries substantially lower risk, and is the listing most people are actually looking for when they arrive at this page. If OWO was what you meant, that guide is the one to read.

What the risk actually is

Worth setting out properly rather than gesturing at, because vague warnings persuade nobody.

Unprotected penetrative sex is the highest risk activity for HIV transmission and for most bacterial infections, and receptive anal is higher risk again. Chlamydia and gonorrhoea frequently show no symptoms at all, which means somebody can be entirely honest with you and still be wrong. A recent test is a statement about the past, not the present.

None of that is a lecture. It is the reason the answer does not move.

If you want a real conversation about any of this, a sexual health clinic will have it with you for free and without judgement. Our guide on sexual health and escorts lists the London ones, including walk in services and how PrEP works.

If a listing offers it, that is your warning

This is the genuinely useful part of this page.

An advert offering bareback is one of the most reliable signals that something is wrong. In practice it tends to mean one of three things: the listing is fake and exists to take a deposit, the photos are not the person, or somebody is being controlled by whoever wrote the advert.

That last one is the reason to care. The adverts that offer what nobody else will are disproportionately the adverts where somebody is not choosing freely. Our guide on spotting a fake listing covers the other signals, and if something feels wrong the number for Modern Slavery is 0800 0121 700.

Asking on the night

Do not. It is the single request most likely to end a booking, and it is the one thing that will get somebody taken off our client list.

The reason is not prudishness. Asking in a room, alone, after money has changed hands, is asking someone to reconsider a safety decision under pressure. Most escorts have had it happen and all of them remember who did it.

Offering more money makes it worse rather than better. See how to pay and escort etiquette.

If the condom fails

It happens, it is nobody’s fault, and there is a clear thing to do.

PEP is emergency HIV medication and it works best the sooner it is started, ideally within twenty four hours and no later than seventy two. You get it from a sexual health clinic or an A and E department, free, without an appointment and without an explanation of how you came to need it.

Tell her, rather than saying nothing. She needs to know for the same reasons you do.

What we do offer

Nearly everything else, and the profiles say so plainly. Read the full glossary for what the listings mean, or browse the roster.

If you want to talk any of this through before booking, ring +44 20 7846 3480. It is a normal question and nobody will make it awkward.

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What it actually involves

A scenario, a costume, or both. Nurse and patient, secretary and boss, strangers meeting at a hotel bar, a first date that is not a first date. What matters is the setup rather than the outfit: the clothes are a prop, the premise is the thing.

It also covers a register rather than a plot. Plenty of role play bookings are simply an agreement about how the evening opens: she arrives as somebody you have not met, and the pretence holds for the first twenty minutes.

Tell us when you book, not when she arrives

This is the entire difference between a good one and a flat one.

She cannot arrive dressed as something she was not told about. She cannot prepare a character she first hears about at the door. A scenario sprung on somebody who was expecting an ordinary booking gets a polite improvisation at best, and that is not what you were after.

Mention it on the phone. It is a completely ordinary request and nobody handling the call will react to it.

How to describe what you want

Three things are enough:

• The premise. Who each of you is, and how you have supposedly met.
• How it opens. Does she knock, does she arrive at a bar, is she already there.
• What she wears. Specific if it matters, “smart” if it does not.

You do not need a script and she is not learning lines. Most of it is improvised around a setup, which is why the setup is the part worth getting right.

Meeting in public

A scenario that starts in a hotel bar is one of the more popular ones and works well, with two caveats. Agree the signal that the pretence has started, and agree what happens if somebody you know walks in. Both are thirty seconds on the phone and save an awkward evening.

Our guide on hotel bookings covers how the arrival itself works.

Length

Longer than you think. An hour that includes establishing a scenario leaves little time for anything else, so ninety minutes is the sensible floor and two hours is where these bookings actually work.

A dinner date is often the better shape for one, since the premise has somewhere to live.

What stays the same

Everything else. What she offers is on her profile and a scenario does not add to it. She can step out of the pretence at any point, and if she does, it stops being a scene and goes back to being an evening.

See the escorts who offer role play, or domination and fetish bookings, which shares much of the same ground about asking clearly.

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The short answer

MMF = male, male, female. Two men and one woman.

Fifteen of our roster list it, which makes it genuinely selective rather than merely less popular. That number is worth holding on to, because it is the practical constraint on the whole thing.

The distinction that matters

MMF describes who is present. It does not describe what the two men do.

In practice almost every MMF booking arranged through an agency is what people call a bi curious free arrangement: both men are involved with her and not with each other. If that is not what you had in mind, that is the thing to say when you book, because assuming it is the assumption that goes wrong.

The mirror image, two women and one man, is a duo booking, and that is a much larger part of what we do. Fifty two of the roster list duos, against fifteen for MMF.

Who books it

Three groups, roughly.

• Two friends. Straightforward, and the most common version by a distance.
• A couple where the man is bringing a second man. Less common through an agency and worth a longer conversation first.
• One man who wants to watch. Which is a different booking again, and often better arranged as something else entirely.

If you are a couple booking rather than two men, our guide on booking as a couple is the relevant one. Forty six of the roster see couples.

The practical constraints

This is where MMF differs most from everything else on the site, and it is worth being blunt about.

It is nearly always an outcall. Two men arriving at a residential flat is not discreet and most escorts will not host it. A hotel room is the normal answer. See London hotel bookings and incall or outcall.

Notice matters more than usual. Fifteen people, one of whom has to be free on the night you want. Same day is unlikely. Two or three days makes it straightforward.

Book two hours. An hour split three ways is not an evening, it is a queue.

The rate is not the standard one. It is set individually rather than by a formula, and it is more than a single booking and less than double. Ask when you book. What a booking costs covers how rates work generally.

The etiquette, which matters here more than anywhere

Three people in a room is a different social situation from two, and the bookings that go badly nearly always go badly for the same reason: one of the two men treats it as a performance for the other.

The rest is ordinary. Both of you shower. Both of you are on time. One person handles the payment rather than a discussion at the door. And both of you take a no as a no, which is a thing that needs saying because a second man in the room occasionally makes people braver than they would be alone.

Our guide on escort etiquette covers the rest, and all of it applies twice over.

Related listings

• MMF. Fifteen list it.
• Couples. Forty six list it.
• Duo, two escorts and one client. Fifty two list it. See our duo and trio page.
• DP. Two list it, and it is the rarest listing on the site for good reason.

Asking

Ring rather than email, and say at the start that it is an MMF so the conversation starts in the right place. Say where, say how long, and say whether it is two friends or a couple.

As with everything here, a listing is what somebody is open to rather than a promise, and any escort can decline on the night without giving a reason.

See who offers MMF, read the glossary, or call +44 20 7846 3480.

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What it describes

An intensity rather than a checklist. Where the girlfriend experience is unhurried and warm, PSE is faster, more explicit in manner and less interested in the drink and the conversation first. That is the register it names.

What it does not include by default

This is the important part. PSE is not a shorthand for “everything”, and booking it does not add anything to what an escort offers. What she is happy with is listed on her own profile, in full, and that list is the only thing that counts.

What PSE covers varies more between escorts than almost any other term on the site. Two profiles both listing it can mean noticeably different evenings. Read her profile, then settle the detail on the phone before the booking rather than at the door.

Whether it suits you

It suits somebody who knows what they want and would rather get to it. It suits a shorter booking better than a long one, and it suits a second or third booking better than a first, when you already know how you get on.

It suits you less if what you actually want is company, in which case GFE is the thing you are describing and asking for PSE will get you the wrong evening.

Asking for it well

Be specific on the phone. “PSE” on its own tells us less than you think, and the useful conversation is about what you are actually hoping for. We would far rather have that conversation while a booking is being made than have you disappointed by one.

Nothing you ask for is guaranteed, and she can decline anything on the night without giving a reason. That is true of every escort at every agency, and anyone who tells you otherwise is not worth booking through.

Where to look

See the escorts who list PSE. The glossary explains the individual abbreviations that appear alongside it on a profile, which is usually more useful than the umbrella term.

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Protection is the default

Every booking, without discussion. Escorts supply them and most bring their own preferred brand; bring some anyway if you have a size or type you get on with.

Asking to go without is the request that ends bookings, and it is worth understanding why it lands the way it does. It is not squeamishness. It is somebody being asked to take a risk repeatedly, by a stranger, on the strength of a claim they have no way of checking. Asking is not negotiating; it is the end of the evening.

What protection does and does not cover

Condoms substantially reduce transmission of most infections but not all of them equally. Anything spread by skin contact rather than fluid, herpes and HPV among them, is only partly covered, because the barrier does not cover everything that touches.

Oral carries lower risk than penetrative sex but not zero, which is the honest answer people rarely give. Several listings on this site relate to unprotected oral specifically. Whether that risk is acceptable is a decision for you to make with real information, and the sources below are better placed to give it than we are.

Test regularly

If you see escorts with any regularity, an annual test is the floor and every three to six months is more sensible. It is free, quick and unremarkable.

• Sexual health clinics across the NHS, walk in or booked, free and confidential
• Postal test kits from many local NHS services, free in most areas
• Your GP, though a clinic is usually faster and more used to the conversation

Nobody at a clinic will ask you anything they do not need to know, and nobody there will be surprised by anything you tell them.

PrEP and vaccination

PrEP is available free on the NHS through sexual health clinics for people at higher risk of HIV, and it is worth asking about rather than assuming you would not qualify. Hepatitis B vaccination is also available free through the same clinics, and HPV vaccination is offered to some adults.

These are conversations to have with a clinician rather than with an agency.

If something is wrong, do not book

Symptoms, a recent exposure, waiting on a result. Cancel, get seen, book another time. There is no charge for cancelling with reasonable notice and nobody will ask you why.

The same holds in reverse: an escort who is unwell will cancel, and that is the system working rather than failing.

Where to get real information

• NHS sexual health services, for testing, PrEP and vaccination
• Terrence Higgins Trust, for HIV and sexual health advice
• Brook, for general sexual health information

Any of the three will give you better detail than a page like this should attempt.

Our etiquette guide covers the conventions around a booking, and the glossary explains the listings that relate to this directly, so you can read a profile knowing what it is telling you.

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Tell us the venue and the guest count

Both, when you book. They are not idle questions.

The venue decides how she dresses and whether the evening is even practical: some clubs are strict about arriving as a pair, some private members’ clubs will not admit a guest who is not on the list, and a house party in zone four is a different proposition from a bar in Mayfair.

The guest count decides whether she is one of two people or one of thirty. Both are fine. Being told the wrong one on arrival is not.

Length

Three hours minimum, and most run longer. An hour at a party is barely an arrival, and the shape of the evening means the good part usually starts after the first hour rather than in it.

Overnight is common for these, since a night out that ends at two in the morning with an escort sent home in a taxi is a worse evening than one that does not. Our guide on overnight bookings covers how those work.

Groups and stag nights

Perfectly ordinary bookings and we take plenty. A few things make the difference between one that goes well and one that does not:

• One person books and one person is responsible. Not a group decision made over the phone at eleven at night.
• Everybody knows the arrangement in advance. An escort arriving to a room of men who were not told she was coming is a bad start for everyone.
• She is there with the group, not for it. What she offers is on her profile and is between her and whoever booked, not a facility for the room.
• Drink. A booking with a group that is already very drunk is the most common one we decline.

For a larger group, two escorts usually works better than one. See our guide on duo bookings.

Corporate and business evenings

Dinner with colleagues or clients is a dinner date rather than a party booking, and the etiquette is different. She should be told who else is at the table and what she is being introduced as, so nobody is improvising. Our dinner date guide covers it.

Practical points

• Cover her transport if the venue is out of the way
• Have somewhere for her coat and bag that is not the floor
• Do not introduce her as an escort, to anyone, ever
• Agree when the evening ends before it starts

Booking one

Ring earlier than you would for a standard booking. Party bookings take a whole evening, so the roster available for one on a Friday is a good deal thinner than the roster available for an hour.

See the escorts comfortable with a night out, and escort etiquette for the conventions that apply wherever you are.

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The train

The Gatwick Express reaches Victoria in about thirty minutes. Thameslink runs to London Bridge, Blackfriars, Farringdon and St Pancras for less money and takes a little longer.

Victoria puts you next to Belgravia and Knightsbridge, both quiet and both well served. One stop further and you are in Chelsea or South Kensington. Our guide on escorts near London stations covers what each terminus puts you near.

If you cannot leave the airport

Outcall to a Gatwick hotel is possible but it is a genuine expedition, and you should plan it as one:

Notice, in hours not minutes. Three or four is realistic. This is not a same evening booking.

A long booking or none at all. Nobody is travelling an hour each way for a one hour booking, and we would not ask them to. Three hours or an overnight is the shape that works.

Travel on top. Expect a meaningful supplement rather than the usual thirty to fifty pounds, agreed on the phone before anything is confirmed. We will tell you the figure plainly rather than surprising you with it.

A smaller roster. Only some escorts cover this distance. Ring and ask rather than working from the listing.

Which terminal

Immaterial. She comes to your hotel and we need the hotel name and room number rather than a terminal. North and South are a two minute shuttle apart in any case.

Early flights

If you are flying out at dawn from a Gatwick hotel, an overnight booking is the only version of this that makes sense. It absorbs the travel across eight hours instead of two, so the arithmetic works for everybody and the morning is not a scramble.

Stansted, Luton and City

The same logic, more so for Stansted and Luton, which are further again. London City is the exception: it is genuinely in London, twenty minutes from the centre on the DLR, and an ordinary booking rather than a special case.

Short version

• Any flexibility at all: train to Victoria, book in town
• Stuck at the airport: ring hours ahead, book three hours or an overnight, expect a travel supplement
• Early flight out: overnight at the hotel

See booking at a London hotel for how a hotel outcall runs, or the roster, where sharing your location reorders every card by distance.

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